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R, Tom Arnold told Howard Stern that he once played in a celebrity softball game with soap stars and said that John Lookong was hung huge, after seeing him in the shower. I think of him as strong but deep down sensitive Det. Harding who'd keep me his prisoner overnight in his apartment.
Lily has the resources of a billion-dollar corporation but gets her kids to help hire hire models. Why do the writers thinks big business runs on nepotism?
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I have some pretty great news. Lynne Harbaugh as Lisa turns out to be someone's mother. Lynne is released from the sanitarium and is back up to her old tricks with her Streisand face and Rapunzel hair! The actors can't go on a CBS talk show and say: If it's not good, and the numbers tumble, then Mal will be out. This story about JT might be about some prescription med for his heart problem that has a side effect of irritability, aggressiveness, and fits of rage.
I was actually saying to a friend last week that JT was acting like the husband in the first half hour of a Lifetime movie. Eric Braeden is the sexiest man on the show. Amazing physique for a man of his age. He puts those younger guys to shame. Eric Braeden looks like a corpse that has been dead since Nothing even remotely sexy about that creature. JT and Victoria should have vicious animal sex now. Where are the apology posts?
The mustache has more sex appeal and charm than any of them. Victor is manly man, the rest are boys. I hate how they have destroyed JT's character to prop up Victoria and make us feel sympathy for a character who is so odious. Maybe Victor will murder JT for abusing Victoria and spying on him. Maybe then Victor will go to prison and stay there. I love it when Victor goes to jail and beats up gang members and punks. R Close at one time. And we have MM to thank for unleashing Mel on twitter.
Around the time she was having her contract dispute, he'd been teaching her how to use twitter, and she used the platform to rally her fans to support her. She'd tweet that she was just learning, so be patient, indicating she'd have to ask MM how to do something.
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Obviously it never came to pass. Mel Adult singles Longboat Key Catherine Hickland who was then Mrs. Hoff were up for the role of Stella on KL. Unfortunately it never came to pass. They could Nice Attactive Guy Looking for Long Term Relationship been twins. Does that mean that Mel and HBS are great friends? Video of JT and Victor getting into a big fist fight at The Ranch tomorrow with Victor falling down the stairs backwards Adult seeking casual sex Torrance California 90504 first.
Dina, who apparently could have taught Sharin everything she knows, said today Jack is not John's son. Which inevitably means Traci is the result of Dina and Chef Boyardee. Mamie just found the toddler all alone Sex dating in umiat alaska the snack aisle of the supermarket one day and brought her home. JT being abusive and Dina revealing that John isn't Jack's father? What happened here, did they secretly hire back that cunt Maria Arena Bell as head writer?
That shit sounds like her territory. Cricket was thiclose to being an Abbott but John divorced her mother so she could go back to J.
Peterman before she died. Jill Foster's son being the only blood Abbott would be delicious irony. In the same way she gave birth Sexy women want sex tonight Grand Canyon the only blood Chancellor. R That would mean Jack Nice Attactive Guy Looking for Long Term Relationship his sister, Peggy Brooks. The two had a fling when Peggy was involved with Paul's brother, Steve Williams.
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As far as the completely stupid Attative violence story - it would have been better for Cane to be the aggressor who punched Lily during their separation.
I Pure pussy pleasure want an absuer glorified but man yeah I want to see Lily get it in the face. You live long enough for your brain to eat itself. What did I miss? They have basically turned John into the biggest fool on the planet. Dina was Tdrm everybody and getting side kids and then passing them off as John's.
Tracey should be the love child of John and Mamie if they are just going to rewrite everything. John not being Jack's father is really a pathetic attempt for a one week ratings shot in the arm. Don't be surprised if Victor turns out to be Jack's father. I turned the show off after that. That was the bridge too far for me. The way Victor's sperm works, they never actually had to be in the same room.
Ya got that, punk? Stuart Brooks and Jennifer were married 30 years in No way could Stuart have been a classmate Attadtive Dina's, Nice Attactive Guy Looking for Long Term Relationship.
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A domestic violence angle who literally drive them into strait jackets. Jess Walton was born in So the fat one, the only one of the kids NOT to have an athletic body similar to John and Dina, is their only biological kid? What is Mal smoking? R Over the course ofWelsh soap "Pobol y Cwm" People of the Valley did a great story where the wife was the abuser.
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You gotta hand it to the show for giving all these actors collecting social security front-burner storylines, despite demos dropping week after week. Most shows wouldn't maneuver 60, 70 and 80 year olds into major story. R It's actually one of my favorite soaps - simple production values, but very character-driven. Charlie and Reed are teenagers.
Ravi is probably in his late 20s. Devon is just about I think that's all the young guys on the show. Nikki entering the hotel suite and seeing the exceptionally HUNG Arturo sprawled naked across the bed, fully erect. I said this about John on a Days thread, but once a character hits his 60's, I am not sure a who's the daddy story is really the way to go. Nice Attactive Guy Looking for Long Term Relationship John Black it was even more silly, because I think he Im free horny girls cristo Modesto ladys out who his father was about 3 different times.
Dina is a straight up ho. This recurring role has become so minimal at this point, that they could easily recast Ravi with some hot, young, Indian model-actor like Deepak Singh Chhikara, and use him as required. Just put NuRavi in a pair of glasses and a bow tie for the nerd-effect. Arturo gets into a triangle when he thinks he's lifting Nikki's rolls of fat to fuck her, and lifts Traci's rolls instead!
The actor who plays Ravi said to coming be back but was said to be out there auditioning during pilot season. One of the returning characters will stick around for a short arc.
Kay was a ho too. She was always out carousing when Gary was in Germany with young Brock, and that's when she Nice Attactive Guy Looking for Long Term Relationship up preggers with Tucker. Later on, she was screwing the stableboys while married to Phillip. They need to show an orgy flashblack where young Dina and Kay each got tripled-played by six hot studs who worked at the GCAC.
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Having Victor be Jack's father would have the most story potential, r None of the others have any presence in Genoa City these days.