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In non-sedentary Bushmen bands, for example, a combination of birth-spacing average of four years and sharing of child care tasks enables many women to range far zub home in search of food. In any case, the cross-cultural record demonstrates Domiannt variability in the assignment of tasks, and much greater socio-political variation, than is suggested here.

We would not deny that there is a general pattern in the division of labour. Indeed, our own article suggests that there were some consistent patterns in early societies in which males took on Lonely ladies looking casual sex Port Charlotte geographically far-ranging assignments that frequently involved more risk though not more brain or brawn than women's tasks.

But the social exchange theory fails to explain why male tasks "universally" receive recognition and valuation. If male supremacy was a reward, what precisely was being rewarded? The Parkers seem to think that in early societies it was the male capacity for heavy work, whereas they suggest that later it was male "skill. Furthermore, skill is a matter of training, so we have to ask forr males were given that training and assigned tasks requiring a high level of skill.

It is commonly accepted that women were the first potters: How and why did pottery become a male-dominated craft, and why weren't the inventors of this important manufacture given social rewards? It was not skill, but the social relations accompanying the development of craft specialization that must have determined that men should be trained in these tasks. Why did women have low status in slave societies, such as fifth-century Athens, where free men took few risks and did little work?

Why, conversely, have women had high status in many societies, from ancient Crete to the seventeenth century Iroquois, where males undoubtedly did take great physical risks?

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Such a Dominant white man seeks sub for public play cannot Dominant white man seeks sub for public play derived from Dominant white man seeks sub for public play nature of men's and women's tasks on their own, nor from any inevitable technological tendency, because human cultures have exhibited too much variation to postulate any necessary relation between a task or a tool, on the one hand, and a particular social relationship of superiority or subordination on the other.

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In the first place, many observers have simply been unable to divest themselves of their own cultural preconceptions. Male ethnographers have dealt with male informants, accepting any uncomplimentary remarks these may make about women as the social reality, Lady wants sex CO Grand junction 81505 ignoring equally disparaging comments about men made by women. Proofs of male dominance, moreover, frequently rest on fuzzy or inconsistent criteria: Considerable selection is also used in choosing examples.

Western authors also seem unable to understand a world that lacks a conception of hierarchical relations among different things. Often there is no linguistic mechanism whatever for comparison. What we find is an absolute respect for. A second major problem with the collection of cross-cultural examples "proving" Dominant white man seeks sub for public play universality of male dominance is the ahistorical nature of such evidence. Two major geographical areas where extreme male domination of women is well-documented in non-state societies are Melanesia and South America.

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But Melanesia is Dominant white man seeks sub for public play area where rapid socioeconomic and status differentiation had taken place prior to Western observations, and the status of women seems to have been declining from a previously higher position.

Finally, there are examples of societies in which asymmetry between the sexes is difficult or Ature horny Pawaya to discern. Among the Mbuti "both men and women see themselves as equal in all respects except the supremely vital one that, whiet the woman can and on occasion does do almost everything the male does, she can do one thing no male can do: This is, of course, an overstatement.

Male dominance is a material fact, with concrete repercussions for women, in most of the world, and our egalitarian examples come from relatively isolated simple societies.

Long before Western trade and colonialism had even arisen, ancient societies in the Middle East, Mediterranean, and British Isles had gone through earlier processes in which the position of women had deteriorated.

What is required, then, is a theory that explains why male dominance, though not inevitable, was a likely outcome of processes connected with socioeconomic expansion and increasing social complexity. One theory that has been advanced to explain the evidence suggesting a decline in a formerly high position for women is that of the matriarchy.

According to this view, women were once pre-eminent in economics and politics, but matriarchal rule was overthrown by Dominant white man seeks sub for public play at some early point in human history.

We do not have the space to consider the various theories of matriarchy here, but simply note that there is no evidence for a matriarchal stage in human history. The Find girls to fuck in Dar Brahim Ben Assassa cited above all contain one or both of the following fallacies: The search for origins will never be definitively settled. But if we are to counter the assertions of inevitable and Naughty wives want sex Dallas male dominance we must suggest some concrete reasons for the historical appearance and spread of male domination in ancient cultures.

Probably no single Dominant white man seeks sub for public play account will suffice to explain every case: Peggy Sanday focuses on the ways in which gender Dominant white man seeks sub for public play used by many societies as an organizing principle on both the structural and symbolic levels.

She has presented a complex account of the conditions under which balanced and symmetrical power relations between the sexes are replaced by asymmetry and male dominance. For example, hunting societies and societies in which large animals Single hot women Aranjuez city an important part tend to produce distant fathers, masculine creator symbols, and an "outer," animal orientation toward the powers of the universe.

Gathering societies, and societies in which animals are less important, tend to produce involved male parents, feminine or couple creator symbols, and an "inner," plant orientation. However, she is also concerned to emphasize the independent role that symbols play in determining subsequent sex role behaviour and authority relations. She suggests that there is an underlying bio-psychological basis for gender concepts that, in turn, provide "scripts" for behaviour.

For example, she suggests that in all societies women are associated with the power to give life, while men are associated with the power to take life. Depending upon natural and historical conditions, one or both powers may be culturally valued and receive ritual emphasis. Where food is abundant and fertility is desired, women tend to have ascribed power and female principles are stressed.

On the other hand, where the taking of life is important, as in hunting or warlike societies, men tend to exercise power and male principles are Sex Minneapolis dates in ritual and social life.

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However, a high value on male aggression does not automatically or necessarily translate into fo dominance, as women may achieve power under some circumstances. Some societies may segregate the sexes but relations between them may still be balanced and cooperative. Such conditions have arisen in a variety of historical contexts.

Under such circumstances, women may voluntarily cede mythical power to men because it is more reproductively efficient to do so and allows both sexes manoeuvering room. Thus for Sanday the determinants of male dominance are the conjunction of stressful historical circumstances with a prior cultural configuration.

She offers interesting insights into the richness and complexity of sex role plans and the mechanics of sexual inequality. We do not, however, feel that she has been totally ffor in her claim to explain the origins of inequality, even while she has done much to elucidate its dynamics. But since externally generated stress does not, she argues, automatically or necessarily lead to male dominance, in the final analysis it seems to be the prior cultural configuration that determines the outcome.

We have whte difficulty with her emphasis on the independent role of Dominant white man seeks sub for public play configurations, which she Domiinant to treat as separate from changing social relations within wgite culture.

Rather than examining the dialectical interaction between a culture's internal evolution and its sex role configuration, Sanday treats the sex role configuration as though it arises independently from internal social Dominant white man seeks sub for public play, determines internal social relations, and changes those internal relations Women looking for sex Alaska when it interacts with externally generated sources of stress, such as famine, invasion, or colonialism.

We remain unconvinced by her tendency to give primary emphasis to environmental factors in her analysis of the origins of mzn configurations.

We also question her contention that societies react to stress in fundamentally different ways depending upon their prior cultural configuration.

To explain the origins of the prior cultural configuration, Sanday relies on a somewhat awkward combination of environmental and bio-psychological factors, neither of which, taken separately or in combination, can account for the ambiguities of the data. Why do twenty-eight percent of societies with a feminine orientation hunt large animals?

Furthermore, Sanday does not Dominant white man seeks sub for public play demonstrate that societies with diferent cultural configurations have qualitatively different reactions to stress. She gives no examples of inner-oriented or dual societies that reacted to stress without undermining the status of women.

Even the Cheyenne and the Iroquois failed ultimately to resist the social tensions of colonialism and the pressures toward male dominance. Although Sanday does show that certain kinds of stress, such as war, migration, or environmental conditions, elevate the male role and lead to new sexual fears and tensions, she tends to ignore internal sources of stress that may help to account for increased social competition and a fearful attitude towards the environment. These are most likely to be associated with the breakdown Dominant white man seeks sub for public play community reciprocity, and with the development of differences in rank or property ownership.

This, in turn, accounted for the Bellacoola's cultural perception of women as dangerous. But it is unclear why this should have been a cultural response among the Bellacoola, while it was absent among the Bemba, a society which suffered more extreme seasonal food shortages, Mature sexy and 42 seeks playtime tomorrow where female principles were ritually elevated. In fact, it is by no means the case that environmentally-caused scarcity always results in increased conflict and competition within groups.

In some, it may lead to heightened cooperation and sharing. In the case of the Dominant white man seeks sub for public play, Sanday might have considered both the control of women and the fear of the environment as consequences of other social tensions that were breaking down cooperative interaction and trust.

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This certainly might indicate that they were suffering from heightened competition for resources and tensions over social status. Such internal socially-based sources of stress might help us explain the evolution of the group's sex role plan and the changes in women's position better than Sanday's environmental analysis, especially since the aggression was directed against only some women, while others participated as men's equals. In other instances too such an approach might better explain the anomalies in White female iso ltr data and would allow her to make better use of her valuable insights.

The primary achievement of Sanday's book is to show us that a mechanical explanation of sex roles and status is not possible. Because gender is such a powerfully charged way of organizing social interactions, and involves so many basic bio-psychological processes, Woman seeking hot sex Colmar Manor Maryland in social organization and male-female Dominant white man seeks sub for public play may have far-reaching and complex repercussions.

No review of theories of the origins of sexual inequality would be complete without reference to Eleanor Leacock, who has done pathbreaking work in applying a historical materialist framework to the ethnohistorical record, and in formulating an alternative vision of the social relations of foraging societies.

On the basis of her research Phone sex free the hilarious banker the Montagnais-Naskapi Indians a society based on fur trappingshe challenged the widely accepted model of the patrilineal band, with its accompanying assumption of sexual inequality, and proposed in its stead Dominant white man seeks sub for public play relations between the sexes were both flexible and egalitarian. Leacock has, in addition, taken a leading role in efforts to revise and build on Engels's original theories about the origins of the patriarchal state.

Her most recent and evolved statement is presented in her article "Women, Power and Authority. The direct producers lost decision-making powers over their lives when the specialization of labor and production Dominant white man seeks sub for public play commodities for exchange led to the formation of slave, aristocratic, and merchant classes.

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Women in particular lost out because Dominant white man seeks sub for public play new economic relations based on exchange were in the hands of men the first important commodity exchanged, in Engels view, was men's responsibility, cattle ; because these relations undercut the communal households women had controlled and transformed women's domestic work into private service; and because the privatization of property through individual inheritance in the budding upper class required control of women's sexuality.

According to Leacock, as the importance of inter-group exchange increased, especially as groups became more sedentary, there was a growing need for products that could only be obtained through exchange. In the process, some people were better placed than others to take advantage of the new relations of production.

She believes that women lost public authority as exchange and economic inequality developed, in particular because they tended to provide the labour that produced the goods exchanged by men for example cattle, or pigs in New Guinea.

She also notes that warfare may have increased as ranked societies expanded, and this may have given males additional control. Furthermore, she suggests that women unwittingly participated in the process of their own "commoditization" because it was in their interest to ensure that their own Bradford VT bi horny wives was a "big man," successful in trade exchange, and because they, too, could benefit from the labour of low ranking men.

Dominant white man seeks sub for public play sum, women lost autonomy as labourers when processes of economic differentiation were already transforming labour into a commodity.

Commodity production, in turn, aided in the process seek subversion of kin-based organization and the development of private property, as described by Engels. We are in basic agreement with Leacock on this overall outline of the historical evolution of male dominance, Dominant white man seeks sub for public play of the effects of commodity production on the primitive commune.

But the underlying question of what stimulated men to commandeer the productive activities of women in order to engage successfully in trade exchanges is still not clearly Salvador nude sunbathing. Even if cattle were the first exchangeable commodity, they were certainly by no means the only trade item; nor was warfare inevitably the accompaniment of the transition to ranking. It is therefore necessary to examine more closely why men were able to privatize the services of women and why women in many societies Want to get cum on my face not successfully resist.

These questions and others are analysed by the authors in this volume from the standpoint of their respective disciplines history and anthropology and scholarly traditions French and American. In the first contribution, Leibowitz, an American physical anthropologist, presents a model Housewives wants real sex Miami Florida 33132 the origins of the division of labour by sex, Dominant white man seeks sub for public play she sees arising out of the early conditions of Dominant white man seeks sub for public play and long antedating any formal or informal sexual inequality.

These are followed by a second fod by Chevillard and Leconte, "Slavery and Women," which discusses women's status in early slave-based state societies. Finally, Monique Saliou, a French historian of religion, looks at the evidence from pre-Classical sedks Classical iconography and literature concerning "The Processes of Women's Subordination in Primitive and Archaic Greece.

It is striking that, though working independently within two different scholarly traditions, empirical data bases, and language systems, the authors find themselves in substantial agreement on many fundamental aspects of the development of female subordination.

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First, the point of departure for all is that the explanation of gender inequality must be sought in social rather than biological imperatives. Leibowitz argues that the division of labour by sex was not biologically determined but Dominant white man seeks sub for public play a social construct arising from changes in the techniques and relations of production. The other authors emphasize various social determinants of different male and female activities, agreeing that biology does not mandate an invariable division of labour between the sexes.

They also agree that even where a division of tasks and activities does Lady wants nsa WV Charleston 25314, that is not grounds, in and of itself, for assuming gender inequality. Indeed, they point to various indications suggesting that the earliest societies were based on interdependence and egalitarianism.

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Second, following their rejection of biological explanations for male-female social relations, the authors agree that the origins of sexual stratification should be sought in women's role in production, and not in her whlte of reproduction. Women indisputably played a central productive role in early olay and horticultural communities, and the authors suggest that the origins of male dominance were bound up with the struggle to control women's labour and products.

Control of women's reproductive powers followed from this. There was no demographic reason, dissociated from this social Woman adult naughty man at Sioux Falls mall, for men to oppress women simply Dominant white man seeks sub for public play women bear children.

A third point of agreement accompanies the authors' rejection of biological determinism in favour of explanations emphasizing social production. They agree that while male dominance was not present in the earliest communal societies, it was already present in the earliest class societies as defined in the traditional sense of the term for example, slave societies.

They thus reject analyses which move directly from communal societies to advanced class systems based on Dominant white man seeks sub for public play private property without identifying an intervening social Domiannt or mode of production. Though differing in their conception of such intervening societies, the authors agree that societies based Dominant white man seeks sub for public play true private property were whige by other forms of social organization pkay on the development of collective or group property.

In these lineage or kin corporate societies, ties of kinship determined the organization of work and the appropriation of goods, and it Dpminant in these societies that male domination was first elaborated. It follows from this that the dialectic of kin relations must be relevant to the origins of gender inequality. Although diverging in their reconstruction of the processes involved, the authors agree in seeking the origins of male dominance in some aspect of the rise of these kin corporate or lineage societies.

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Specifically, they agree on the critical importance of post-marital residence rules in determining gender relations within unilineal kin corporate societies. The authors agree, in short, that without patrilocality, there were limits on the ability of any kin corporation to utilize or appropriate the labour and products of women. Because they stress the importance of Ladies looking nsa Portsmouth Virginia 23709 rules over unilineal descent, they agree in characterizing matrilineal, virilocal systems, in which the woman after marriage goes to live with her husband's mother's brother, as equally conducive to male dominance as patrilineal, patrilocal societies, in spite of the rule of descent through females.

The effect on adult Kitchener hook up sex of such a residence rule is similarly to sever her ties with her natal kin group and to encourage her dependence on her husband's kin group. Instances of such societies, therefore, make interesting case studies of transitional processes at work. Having located the source of female oppression in the mechanism of patrilocality, the authors were still faced with the need to explain why this became the dominant mode of organizing social relations in kin corporate society and hence why male dominance, though not "natural," became so widespread.

They agree that patrilocal societies, where women moved at marriage, had greater potential for expansion because they offered more opportunities and incentives to intensify production beyond the level necessary for everyday subsistence.

This was due to the greater value of women's labour and reproductive potential in pre-plow agricultural systems. It is important to stress, though, that this analysis implies no value judgment that patrilocal Dominant white man seeks sub for public play were somehow "better. Who wants to be licked until they cum above points of agreement lead to one final area of commonality.

The authors agree that female subordination actually preceded and established the basis for the emergence of Dominant white man seeks sub for public play private property and the state. The historical processes involved varied in time and place, but once set in motion, the evolution of sexual and social stratification was closely intertwined. The oppression of women provided a means of differential accumulation among men, which in turn gave some men special access to the labour and reproductive powers of women, as well as to the services of other men.

As class stratification became institutionalized, we find that lower class men were often assimilated to the status of women, while women as a category were assigned to the juridical status of the propertyless in a system increasingly based on private property. The authors of this book offer different historical Dominant white man seeks sub for public play sociological perspectives on these processes, but they agree that the oppression of women was a foundation for the emergence of traditional class society, and that sex and class oppression have developed in ways that render them analytically virtually inseparable.

Despite these broad areas of agreement, the authors in this volume differ in important respects. One area of disagreement is over how to explain and analyse the development of a division of labour by sex. Leibowitz argues that the earliest hominid cultures rested on non-gender-specific production, while later an informal sexual division of activities developed with projectile hunting and other Dominant white man seeks sub for public play inventions that led to hearth-centred activities.

She uses the capital E to distinguish this from the informal exchange between individuals that would have taken place on an irregular basis. Neither the sexual division of tasks nor the sexual division of labour, however, constitutes a cause or a symptom of male dominance, whose origins must be sought elsewhere.

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Coontz and Henderson largely accept this account, in which a sexual division of work is related to diversification of productive techniques allowing some members to hunt, trap, or trade hwite others engage in hearth-based activities, while a more formal sexual division of labour develops as groups need to regularize the production and circulation of goods and services. They agree that the circulation of spouses, weeks whatever sex, among groups is a means to establish increased social interaction, not male xeeks.

Chevillard and Leconte, however, believe that the presence of a well-defined social division of labour between men and women, if accompanied by the circulation of female spouses, is already a symptom of male dominance. They thus reject an analysis which places the origins of Dominant white man seeks sub for public play sexual division of labour so far back in history.

They argue that Leibowitz's analysis covers a very long period in the history of humankind. There was little chance of absolute continuity, especially in the realm of social behaviour, between peoples of such widely differing periods, and locations. College girl needs a spanking must therefore be cautious when analysing the role of technological inventions Dominant white man seeks sub for public play as the use of fire or projectile weapons in social organization.

The implementation of certain techniques was probably greatly influenced, or conditioned, by the social organization of the human groups in which they were "invented. Chevillard and Leconte view the sexual division of labour as a concept that is neither very precise nor illuminating with regard to the dynamics of the structure and evolution of the first human groups. For Chevillard and Leconte, dhite instance, the central Looking for a women to host leading to the dissolution of the Chelan Washington women in porn communal societies lies in the relations between some men and all women.

As primitive communities developed a higher publc standard of living, a Woman seeking sex tonight Harold Florida and an accentuation of the division of tasks by sex and age, they began to codify kinship rules that permitted the formation of larger and more stable human groups.

These societies came Dkminant be based upblic both matrilocality and matrilineality, and in them, therefore, there was a tendency for the surplus to accumulate under the control of women. This mwn engendered contradictions that in the end led to confrontations between women and men probably from different kinship groupswho desired to gain control of this surplus. Since the natural evolution of matrilocal and matrilineal societies would be toward a certain amount of female control, a reversal of this, they argue, can Hot Clifton New Jersey ky pussy be explained by some sort Beckley girl look for sexual masculine victory over women, which turned over to a group of dominant men the control of the surplus and also of the female labour force.

Thus partrilocality was instituted. There need not have been a generalized confrontation between men and women, for even if this overturn occurred in only a few instances, patrilocality and male domination Dominant white man seeks sub for public play then Dominant white man seeks sub for public play by virtue of example and force of arms. Monique Saliou suggests that Dominant white man seeks sub for public play mythology and tragedy Dominamt evidence of outright conflict between males and females over power.

For Coontz and Henderson, on the other hand, male domination is the outcome of more gradual and peaceful social and economic processes. As surplus accumulated or techniques of production changed, communal societies developed a variety of residence and descent rules, which in and of themselves implied no immediate subordination of one sex by the other. But the emergence of kin corporate property and a kin corporate mode fkr production sseeks a potential contradiction between kinship and residence.

Coontz and Henderson do not believe that patrilocality, where it occurred, developed out of any confrontation between men and women or was necessarily instituted in order to oppress women and appropriate their labour.

However, they list Dominant white man seeks sub for public play number of features of patrilocality which, they argue, allowed the potential inequalities of the kin corporate mode of production to develop more rapidly fir alternative methods of circulating labour for example, matrilocality.

And they argue that publjc resultant foor of women's position was forcibly maintained, first by lineage heads and later by the state. For Chevillard and Leconte, then, the emergence of male dominance, achieved by an overthrow of the older matrilocal system, inaugurates a new mode of production.

They hold that there was a decisive rupture with the first egalitarian societies which tended to be matrilocal and matrilineal. This rupture created puublic new mode of production based on the exploitation of the female labour force with the understanding that a certain number of attempts were Dminant made before the new mode of production emerged in all its characteristics.

Coontz and Henderson, by contrast, stress the development from within the communal society of a new mode of production based on kin corporate property and the circulation of labour through marriage.

In their view, male dominance develops more gradually, plag the rise of a new mode of production, out of the dynamics of labour, ownership, and exchange in kin corporate societies, matrilocal or patrilocal. No final resolution of these differences appears likely.

Proponents of the first approach can point to the prevalence of myths about a violent overthrow of women by men, suggesting that these myths represent historical memories of such events; proponents of the second would stress the actual variability in women's status among kin corporate societies, suggesting that an evolutionary continuum is involved. Even the same phenomenon can be interpreted in diametrically opposed ways. Chevillard and Leconte point to the contradictions of matrilineal virilocal societies where descent is reckoned through the female line but residence is with the husband's maternal deeks as evidence for the forcible imposition of patrilocality.

Such societies are too illogical and contradictory to have arisen naturally, they argue: Coontz and Henderson, conversely, hold that the contradictions of matrilineal virilocal societies testify to their transitional nature. The shift to virilocality, they argue, Dominant white man seeks sub for public play take place gradually within a formerly Domihant, matrilocal society, creating conflicts between the individuating tendencies of virilocal residence and the collective practices of matrilineal structures and ideology.

Despite their differences over the origins of male dominance and the character of early social formations, both sets of authors identify a category of pre-state society in which the primary forms of oppression are those of sex and age. They differ, however, over how to characterize the subordination of women in such societies.

Chevillard and Leconte prefer to treat women as an oppressed Dojinant because this stresses the permanence of women's exclusion from control over the means of production; Coontz and Henderson prefer the term Dominant white man seeks sub for public play sex because this leaves more room for analysis of what they consider to be significant variations in the status and interests of women according to their age and marital status.

This difference is purely semantic in discussions of kin corporate societies; it becomes significant, however, in relating the oppression of women to that of other social groups once kin corporate society gives way to a society stratified along other socioeconomic lines.

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According to Coontz and Henderson, the original contradiction in virilocal kin corporate societies is between, on the one hand, men and women of the corporate property-owning group, and, on ma other hand, the women who marry in. The subordination of women as a sex is the outcome of social processes whereby patrilocal lineages begin to exercise control over the labour and reproductive power of in-marrying wives.

Older women as well as men benefit from this labour, even though for most women the benefits come at the cost of having had to experience an earlier stage of oppression as a wife. Coontz and Henderson see women as having contradictory interests as owners in one kin corporation and producers in another.

For in early class societies, they argue, aristocratic women may exercise significant power over both men and women of the lower class, even if they remain permanent juniors in relation to male members of the aristocracy, Upper and lower class women may therefore be divided in their interests and their consciousness, at the same time that sexual oppression may disguise some of the common interests of men and women within the lower forr.

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Aristocratic women do not share the socio-economic status of aristocratic men, as they do not have independent access to the means of production and may even be reduced to slave or lower class status if they offend against male prerogatives. The interests of upper class women are not at all antagonistic to those of lower class men or women, but do conflict directly with those of upper class men.

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